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☆ Harvard-trained toxic parenting expert: 5 phrases I never say to my kids
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-21 | by ( Jennifer Breheny Wallace | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +3 min

This emphasis can be felt by our kids as "perceived parental criticism," and it is linked to poor mental health outcomes in kids. 'Your job is to be a student'High-achieving kids don't get many chances to feel useful to anyone but themselves. For our kids to thrive, they must know how to contribute to their broader community. I never want my kids to think that their academic performance is what matters most to me, or that their grades define them. I've found that a low-key opening like this actually leads to more in-depth conversations with my kids about social dynamics, friendships, health and well-being.

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☆ 5 ways parents show they have a favorite child, even if they try to treat everyone equally
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-21 | by ( Julia Pugachevsky | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

A relational-trauma therapist shared the subtle ways parents show they have a favorite child. Wright shared some of the common signs of parents favoring one child over their siblings, even if they mean well. The "golden child" is then the one who fits the ideal the best, while the other may become the scapegoat of the family. Related storiesAs a result, the parents may use the golden child as a goalpost for the other child's success. Parents who root for the golden child can overlook the importance of a collaborative, trusting sibling relationship.

Persons: —, Annie Wright, Wright Organizations: Service Locations: HBO's

☆ College tour season is about to kick off. Here are 10 tips from college tour guides to have a successful campus visit.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-20 | by ( Pamela Brill | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

To make the most of your visit, Business Insider spoke with college students and tour guides. Here are the dos and don'ts of college tours from student guides. Related storiesStudents can comfortably ask questions without a parent present and compare notes afterward. But some topics are off-limits, so don't ask your tour guide about their SAT scores, ACT scores, or what they wrote about in their essay. Your tour may be over, but you can still learn other ways to immerse yourself in college life.

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☆ If you've distanced yourself from a difficult parent but miss them, here's 3 signs it's safe to reconnect
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-19 | by ( Kim Schewitz | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

Some parents are so destructive, critical, and abusive that an adult child has no option but to choose between their own mental health and the parent. "So often there's a great amount of misunderstanding between the generations where the adult child might say, 'well, you emotionally abused me, you harmed me, you neglected me.' And the parent is like, 'Look, I was raised with abusive parents, you did not have an abusive childhood.' If you're missing a cut-off parent but are worried about letting them back into your life, he shared three signs that it's safe to reconnect. Your parents are taking responsibilityColeman helps parents whose adult children have gone no-contact try to turn things around.

Persons: —, Joshua Coleman, Coleman, there's Organizations: Service, Business

☆ The No. 1 habit to teach kids to give them a 'significant advantage,' from psychology expert with 40 years experience
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-19 | by ( ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +5 min

The complexity of meaning carried in our voices — including pitch, tone, volume, and emphasis, qualities known as vocalics — is extraordinary. There is a strong and consistent association between the ability to identify emotion in voices and social success, research shows. Children who learn to successfully use vocalics have a significant advantage when it comes to communication and connection. Here's how parents can teach their kids about vocalics, to help them effectively connect with their peers. Make recordings of your child's voice — and play them for herFew of us enjoy hearing a recording of our voices.

Persons: —, I'm, Dr, Alexia Rothman, Mary, Stephen Nowicki, Charles Howard Candler, Nowicki Organizations: Emory University, Psychological Center, Counseling, CNBC

Video shows RSF soldiers humiliating men from a village in Jazira state. Displaced people fleeing from Jazira state arrive in Gedaref, in the east of war-torn Sudan, on December 22, 2023. The RSF told him they would only return his car if he worked for them, Farouk recalled. Displaced people fleeing from Jazira state arrive in Gedaref, in the east of war-torn Sudan, on December 22, 2023. The RSF’s violent advances in Jazira state, their targeted destruction of warehouses, Sudan’s gene bank and irrigation systems will inevitably further exacerbate Sudan’s massive food shortages,” she said.

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☆ I chose to be a single mom at 36 and had 3 kids. When I got cancer, I worried about what would happen if I died.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-17 | by ( Allison Langer | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

I wanted kids, and decided to have them on my own via an anonymous sperm donor. I wasn't worried about being a single mother until I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. AdvertisementI wanted children more than anything. A man I'd dated and have remained friends with told me what I was doing wasn't fair to the children. AdvertisementA cancer diagnosis made me start thinking about the futureThe summer after I turned 51, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer.

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☆ Lily Allen says having children 'totally ruined' her career and parents can't 'have it all.' Career coaches say she's right.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-16 | by ( Lauren Edmonds | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +7 min

C-Suite career coach Elizabeth Pearson said juggling family and a career can feel "impossible." AdvertisementAccording to Lily Allen, having children and a career just don't mix. "I never really have a strategy when it comes to my career, but yes, my children ruined my career. ANGELA WEISS/Getty ImagesWhile Allen's comments prompted criticism from some, career coaches Elizabeth Pearson and Sara Madera told Business Insider she's not entirely wrong. Both Madera and Pearson urged parents to make themselves a priority, even when it's hardBoth career coaches agreed that parents should check in with themselves.

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☆ I grew up in foster care and lacked close relationships. I wanted to give my daughter a different childhood.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-14 | by ( Tammy Rabideau | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +7 min

I was placed in foster care and found it hard to create close relationships. AdvertisementAs I browsed the crowded self-help aisle at Barnes & Noble, I looked down to find my two-year-old daughter, Kristil, on the ground kicking and screaming. I was safe in foster care, but I didn't develop emotional bondsBeing put into foster care because of what I experienced gave me a deep understanding of how domestic violence affects children. Tammy Rabideau was in foster care as a child, and her experience influenced how she parented her daughter, Kristil. Courtesy Tammy RabideauDespite the challenges I faced in my childhood and foster care, I am grateful for how they shaped my perspective on motherhood.

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☆ My parents were always hesitant to let me go to sleepovers. After I went to my first one, I understood why.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-14 | by ( Gina Paradis | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

My parents didn't allow me to go to most sleepovers when I was growing up. Whenever I'd ask my parents, my mom would say, "Because that girl probably has brothers and a father living there." I didn't know why, but I knew it was the reason I wasn't allowed to go to sleepovers before this one. I was nervous about what my dare would be, especially since I didn't know these girls at all. AdvertisementThe parents in the house didn't believe what I told themI went to talk to her mom and noticed the dad was also home now.

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☆ The Saudi humanoid robot incident shows the machines aren't taking over the world anytime soon
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-14 | by ( Jyoti Mann | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

Saudi Arabia's first male humanoid robot inappropriately touched a female reporter last week. But robots aren't self-aware, so it probably wasn't intentional. Saudi Arabia's first "male" humanoid robot caused a stir after it inappropriately touched a female reporter at an AI conference last week. It's worth pointing out that robots aren't capable of feeling anger or having sexual desires, so it's highly unlikely that Muhammad made a deliberate advance at the reporter. AdvertisementLimited functionalityAI-powered robots remain far from achieving human-like capabilities, as Jeff Cardenas, CEO of humanoid robot maker Apptronik, previously told BI.

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☆ There are pros and cons to letting your kids go to sleepovers. Experts explain how to reduce the risks and create a safety plan.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-11 | by ( Kelly Burch | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

Read previewLate-night pillow fights, junk food, and movie marathons during sleepovers are a rite of passage for many kids and teens. Here's how to decide whether to allow sleepovers, and how to set up safety plans for when your kids sleep away from home. Make a safety plan with your kidsThe most important conversations are the ones you'll have with your child before the sleepover, experts say. Advertisement"These conversations should include respecting personal boundaries, recognizing uncomfortable situations, and knowing how to communicate with you anytime during the sleepover," Rinaldi said. Acknowledge that missing out on sleepovers is hardIf you decide against sleepovers, "empathize with your child, acknowledging their disappointment," Williams said.

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☆ 5 ways to help your kids be more successful than most—including one 'many parents fail to teach,' expert says
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-10 | by ( Tom Huddleston Jr. | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +4 min

But some strategies are proven to be more effective than others, when it comes to raising successful children. Here are five ways parents can help set their kids up for future success, according to psychologists and other parenting experts. But when it comes to raising a successful child, one is more important than the other, educational psychologist Michele Borba wrote for CNBC Make It in 2022. Give them autonomyThe ability to self-motivate is one of the two important traits that can help kids grow into successful adults, child psychologist Dr. Tovah Klein told Make It last year. Don't stress over perfectionWojcicki raised three successful children — a doctor and two high-profile CEOs — but she never demanded perfection from them.

Persons: Michele Borba, Borba, they'll, Nir Eyal, Eyal, Tovah Klein, Esther Wojcicki, Wojcicki, —, Perfectionism, you've, Allison Butler Organizations: CNBC, New Zealand's University of Otago, Bryant University

☆ My husband convinced me to get pregnant. I had the baby, got laid off, and left him — I'm happy with all of my decisions.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-05 | by ( Cat Jones | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

At the time, I was working for a great company with amazing perks, and loving life. Cat Jones was happy with the decision not to have kids but agreed to have a baby. Cat JonesHaving a baby wasn't the dream my husband expectedOur daughter was born with silent reflux, meaning stomach acid rose up her esophagus. I asked him to leave, and eventually, when our baby was eight months old, he did, moving back to the US. In just over a year I had become a mom, left my husband, and lost my dream job.

Persons: hasn't, I'm, I've, Cat Jones, couldn't, it's Organizations: Service Locations: New Zealand, Zealand

☆ Telcos are barely done rolling out 5G networks — and they're already talking about '5.5G'
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-04 | by ( Ryan Browne | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +10 min

And yet bosses of major carriers are already talking about building something called "5.5G," or "5G Advanced." Carriers in China, South Korea, the United States, and Europe, properly got underway with launches of 5G networks in 2019. 5G Advanced, or the name for the next stage of 5G, is the next evolution of mobile networks. 5G advanced — 5G standalone, that's absolutely fine. Telcos haven't yet revealed how much more a 5G Advanced data plan will cost compared with 5G.

Persons: Angel Garcia, it's, GSMAi, Milind Kulkarni, Howard Watson, 5.5G, Watson, execs, Mats Granryd, Granryd, Karen Tso, Telcos, Philip Song Organizations: Bloomberg, Getty, Spain — Telecom, Mobile, Congress, MWC, Deutsche Telekom, Telefonica, BT, Vodafone, Facebook, YouTube, Netflix, Apple, Apple Vision, Meta Quest, Telecommunications, 3GPP, CNBC, telco, Huawei, 5G, 5.5G Locations: BARCELONA, Spain, Barcelona, Orange, China, South Korea, United States, Europe, East, Asia Pacific, America

☆ Death toll rises from Russian drone strike on Ukrainian port city, as China's envoy tours Moscow
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-03 | by ( ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +3 min

Drone view shows rescue crews working at the site of a residential building heavily damaged by a Russian drone strike that killed several residents, amid Russia's attack on Ukraine, in Odesa on March 2, 2024, in this still image from handout video. Ukrainian President Volodymyr Zelenskyy called on Western allies to boost Ukraine's air defenses in the wake of the deadly attack. Four more people may be trapped in the rubble in Odesa, the local branch of Ukraine's main emergency service said in a Facebook update Sunday. Elsewhere in Ukraine, regional authorities reported that a 58-year-old man died under rubble after Russian forces shelled his village in the southern Kherson province. Another civilian man, aged 38, was also killed in a Russian artillery strike on the neighboring Zaporizhzhia region, local Gov.

Persons: Volodymyr Zelenskyy, Read, Tymofiy, Mark, Zelenskyy, Oleh Kiper, Ivan Fedorov Organizations: Twitter, Gov Locations: Russian, Ukraine, Odesa, Russia, Iranian, Kherson province

☆ China might have a friendlier face now, but it's not giving up on its aggressive Wolf Warrior diplomacy, experts say
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-03 | by ( Matthew Loh | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +9 min

The move has also fueled speculation about the end of Wolf Warrior diplomacy. BRENDAN SMIALOWSKI/AFP via Getty ImagesChina is also aware that the shock value of Wolf Warrior diplomacy brings diminishing returns. "I think the limits of wolf warrior diplomacy are apparent," Loh said. The Wolf Warrior will be backThat said, Wolf Warrior diplomacy will return, depending on the issue at hand, said Loh. LEAH MILLIS/Getty ImagesSo why did Liu tell reporters and academics in New York that Wolf Warrior diplomacy would never return?

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☆ I'm a mom of 3 kids and I don't allow screens at home. I might be making my children weird, but I have no regrets.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-02 | by ( Emma Armstrong | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

I'm a tech-literate digital immigrant, but I don't let my three children have screens. It is possible to raise kids screen-free and still operate happily in our world. Despite these obstacles, I chose to keep my kids screen-free: they don't have iPads, smartphones, or computers and don't watch TV. Raising your kids screen-free is not as radical as you would think. I can't even remember why I started doing itPeople in our lives have been surprised about keeping our kids screen-free — possibly because they have to confront their own kids' use of screens.

Persons: —, I'm Organizations: Service, CDC

☆ Bradley Cooper said he didn't know if he loved his daughter at first. Dads struggling to connect with their kids is more common than you might think.
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-29 | by ( Ayomikun Adekaiyero | Serafina Kenny | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

Bradley Cooper said he struggled to love his daughter, Lea De Seine Shayk Cooper, as a newborn. AdvertisementBradley Cooper opened up about struggling to love his baby daughter at first, dividing fans. But experts say dads taking a while to bond with a newborn is more common than you might think. Cooper shares a six-year-old daughter, Lea De Seine Shayk Cooper, with his ex-partner, Irina Shayk, whom he dated from 2015 to 2019. AdvertisementCooper said his feelings changed when Shayk Cooper was eight months old.

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☆ A working mother built a $1.3 billion startup inspired by unreliable school buses: It was ‘an aha moment’
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-29 | by ( Tom Huddleston Jr. | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +5 min

Sometimes, the school bus arrived on time to pick up Ritu Narayan's children. Narayan's solution: She left her job to create Zum, an AI-backed electric school bus service that launched in 2015. It started as something of a self-funded Uber, chauffeuring kids to school with a fleet of vetted private drivers. Instead, the schools offered to enlist Zum as a privatized school bus fleet, with electric vehicles and tracking abilities. Narayan faced a turning point: Stick with her original vision, inspired by her mother, with its clear market and high demand?

Persons: Narayan, —, I'm Organizations: CNBC, eBay, Oracle, Area, Oakland Unified School District Locations: India, California, Washington , Texas , Illinois , Tennessee, Maryland, Silicon Valley

☆ I left a red state and moved to a blue state. The politics and lack of healthcare in Texas drove me back to Oregon.
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-27 | by ( Jules Rogers | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

I moved back to Texas as an adult in 2018 for a position at a local newspaper. I had multiple eye-opening experiences that didn't align with my desired quality of life, so I left around two years later. The voting process was outdatedI experienced voting in person for the first time since I had been voting by mail in Oregon. The lead-up to the Abortion Ban was a heavy reason I left Texas, and this is a hill I will die on. I knew when it was time for me to goAlthough the political environment mismatch was a strong reason I left Texas, other reasons contributed to my move away from the state.

Persons: —, Grandma, Roe, Wade, could've Organizations: Service, Houston, Business Locations: Houston, Portland, Texas, Oregon, In Texas

☆ Harvard-trained investor says this is the 'really powerful' financial lesson she wishes she’d learned at a young age
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-24 | by ( Tom Huddleston Jr. | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +4 min

Alexa von Tobel realized the importance of being financially savvy at a young age, but she still wishes she'd learned more about money as a kid. Like most children in the U.S., von Tobel received "no formal education" on personal finance. "Appreciating that you can have your dollars work hard for you, and on behalf of you, is a really powerful concept," von Tobel says. 'A skill set that you need for your whole life'Given her success as a fintech founder and investor, von Tobel clearly mastered that particular financial lesson eventually. "That concept is very powerful," von Tobel says.

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☆ Student-loan borrowers are officially one step closer to benefiting from Biden's second attempt at debt cancellation after a key stage of the process wrapped up
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-24 | by ( Ayelet Sheffey | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

President Joe Biden's Education Department is officially one step closer to finalizing its second attempt at student-loan forgiveness for federal borrowers. This second attempt at student-debt relief is separated from the other targeted relief initiatives the Education Department has been in the process of carrying out. During a February 21 speech touting the latest relief, Biden said he would continue to pursue loan forgiveness for federal borrowers despite legal challenges. "Look, early in my term, I announced a major plan to provide millions of working families with debt relief for their college student debt. "I announced we were going to pursue alternative paths for student debt relief for as many borrowers as possible.

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Photos You Should See View All 33 ImagesSchools won't get the information they need to award financial aid until next month, forcing them to adapt. Just this past week, Virginia Tech, for example, said it had moved its admissions deposit deadline for first-year college students to May 15. More than 17 million students use the FAFSA every year to receive financial aid for their college education. Rachel Reniva of Dothan, Alabama, said the financial aid decision will affect not only her son’s future but also her entire family’s. Although Jaramillo lives in Toronto, he is a U.S. citizen and thus eligible for financial aid.

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☆ Facebook mom groups are powerful resources. One helped me navigate getting glasses for my toddler.
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-16 | by ( Jillian Becquet | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

I knew my child needed glasses, and I thought it would be as easy as getting them for myself. When I found a facebook group, the community taught me what I needed to find glasses for my 3 year old. In spite of being assured by multiple opticians that these glasses fit, the materials alone gave me pause, and we ended our search until I did more research. AdvertisementA Facebook group helped me get the glassesEnter Facebook. Plus, some of them were optometrists and opticians who knew exactly how to fit glasses on kids of all sizes.

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