To the Editor:Re “Marriage, Not Career, Brings Happiness,” by David Brooks (column, Aug. 20):Mr. Brooks’s advice that ambitious college graduates prioritize marriage over career could only come from a privileged male.
Given the glass ceiling, if women do not prioritize a career, they may not be successful, and their self-esteem may suffer.
Women who prioritize marriage may end up with far less financial security after divorce or after the death of a breadwinning husband.
Further, within marriage, women generally take on a “second shift” domestically, are more likely to care for infirm husbands late in life and are more subject to domestic violence.
While I agree that a strong marriage is a wonderful asset and intimacy is critical to happiness, making marriage itself a priority over financial security and self-fulfillment can backfire, especially for women.
Persons:
David Brooks