But when I began to plan my wedding, it quickly began to feel like the wedding day would be centering just about everyone else.
I wanted to keep both our families happyAs a people-pleaser, I spent the months leading up to the wedding trying to keep both our families happy.
AdvertisementI would have also preferred having no wedding party, but we worried about offending friends and family members if we didn't.
Having dancing or alcohol at the wedding would have enraged my father-in-law, but honestly, we weren't interested in paying hundreds for our guests to drink either.
I wished we had just elopedBefore the wedding day even arrived, I was beginning to regret having one.
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