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☆ My wife and I are both freelancers, which can be a strain on our marriage. We do these 5 things to support each other.
▼ + stars: | 2024-06-06 | by ( Shubham Davey | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

Read previewWe got married in February this year, and since then, my wife, Dhara, has been struggling to land freelance gigs. I have been freelance writing since 2014, and my wife started her freelance career in 2019, so I know this for a fact. My wife sent out dozens of cold emails to potential clients and got one guy to respond, but he ghosted her. To make sure we support each other and keep our marriage healthy, we follow a few important guidelines. If she understands and likes it, I know I've done well.

Persons: —, Dhara, I've, It's Organizations: Service, Business, rockstar, LinkedIn

☆ At 72, I've experienced periods of loneliness. I've learned the best ways to make friends — and to enjoy time alone.
▼ + stars: | 2024-06-06 | by ( Louisa Rogers | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

You can opt-out at any time by visiting our Preferences page or by clicking "unsubscribe" at the bottom of the email. Over the last 50 years, I've had occasional periods of loneliness, but they're brief, and I know what to do to get past my sense of isolation. I join groups to meet new peopleThroughout my adult life, I've made friends by joining organizations, especially if I'm new in town. From that experience, I learned that in order to make friends, I might have to put myself in situations where I feel awkward. Almost 50 years later, I'm still amazed by the story that Dorothy, a divorced physician, described while I was having lunch at her home.

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☆ How author David Nicholls uses humor in his book ‘You are Here’
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-28 | by ( Saira Mueller | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +15 min

That’s not too surprising coming from Nicholls, whose 2009 novel “One Day” explored many of the same themes. It was the most enjoyable writing experience I’ve had for a long time. While hiking the coast-to-coast walk in England, author David Nicholls encountered some torrentially rainy days. I wanted the book to be partly about the comedy of miscommunication — the things we don’t say or the things we say and regret. You say you wanted the book to be in part about miscommunications and what ifs.

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☆ Cruises are the best vacations for introverted travelers. Here's how I make them work for me.
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-27 | by ( Terri Peters | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +1 min

As an introvert, cruises are one of my favorite ways to travel and recharge. I book cruises with lines like Princess that I know are more peaceful and relaxed, too. download the app Email address Sign up By clicking “Sign Up”, you accept our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy . But even as a seeker of alone time, cruising remains among my favorite ways to explore the world. This story is available exclusively to Business Insider subscribers.

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☆ Sand, Sea and Soul: These Architects Follow Nature
▼ + stars: | 2024-05-23 | by ( Craig Kellogg | Ashok Sinha | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +5 min

Their firm, Stelle Lomont Rouhani Architects, quietly became known for a brand of beach modernism that sits lightly in nature, with million-dollar water views of sea grass and open skies. This East Hampton home overlooking the Three Mile Harbor is one of the creations by Stelle Lomont Rouhani Architects. This place to relax in solitude sits near one of the houses designed by Stelle Lomont Rouhani Architects. “Sometimes they got big,” said Mr. Stelle, 77, recalling one with 30,000 square feet. Ms. Rouhani, 54, said she developed the plan “to incorporate this idea of drama” casual enough for family life.

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☆ I'm a single mom and have tons of support from my family. It's still lonely.
▼ + stars: | 2024-04-23 | by ( Ashley Espinoza | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

I got pregnant and the father didn't want to be in my child's life so I've raised her alone. download the app Email address Sign up By clicking “Sign Up”, you accept our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy . I felt it was better to be a single mother than to force a man who didn't want a child. In my 20s, I never wanted to get married, but in my 30s, as a single mother, that thought shifted. She is currently working on a memoir about growing up with a teen mom and becoming a single mother herself.

Persons: didn't, I've, —, they'd, Ashley Espinoza Organizations: Service, Business Locations: Colorado

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☆ There is no loneliness epidemic
▼ + stars: | 2024-04-07 | by ( Eliza Relman | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +17 min

With the report, a steady trickle of headlines about the epidemic turned into a firehose: "Loneliness is at epidemic levels and it's killing Americans" (USA Today); "This Epidemic of Isolation Is as Harmful as Smoking" (Bloomberg); "America's Loneliness Epidemic Comes for the Restaurant" (The Atlantic). There's one problem: The loneliness epidemic doesn't exist. Even the authors caution in their meta-analysis that "the frequently used term 'loneliness epidemic' seems exaggerated." Calling it a "loneliness epidemic," then, may be a bit like calling COVID a "sneezing pandemic." "There are many, many surveys that are just making up questions about loneliness and are not using the UCLA Loneliness Scale or some other validated loneliness scale," she says.

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☆ 9 things people get wrong about sociopaths, according to a sociopath
▼ + stars: | 2024-04-03 | by ( Julia Pugachevsky | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +9 min

The lack of available care for sociopaths inspired Gagne to pursue a PhD in psychology, where she specialized in the relationship between sociopathy and anxiety. Sociopaths do feel emotions, just not "social" onesSociopaths are often depicted in media as devoid of feelings entirely. As an adult researching sociopathy and going to therapy, she learned that sociopaths — and even psychopaths — can feel basic emotions. Related storiesWhile research on the diagnoses is still limited, Gagne says experts believe that, unlike psychopaths, sociopaths can feel anxiety and also show signs of learning right from wrong. They don't understand why some things are "wrong"Throughout the book, Gagne explains how she finds it difficult to identify "bad" behavior.

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☆ Watch: The Solo of ‘Solitude’
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-25 | by ( Gia Kourlas | Stephan Alessi | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: 1 min

Watch: The Solo of ‘Solitude’Click through as Joseph Gordon performs a section from Alexei Ratmansky’s new dance for New York City Ballet, a reaction to the horrors of the war in Ukraine.

Persons: Joseph Gordon, Alexei Ratmansky’s Organizations: New York City Ballet Locations: Ukraine

☆ This man bought a ghost town and lived alone for 3 years. These are the 5 biggest struggles he's faced.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-24 | by ( Polly Thompson | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

Some challenges haven't become any easier, he writes in his new book "Ghost Town Living." Once a thriving 19th-century mining hub, it was a desolate ghost town when he moved there two years later. TragedyUnderwood woke at 3 a.m. one day to the smell of smoke, he writes in "Ghost Town Living." He went to stay with his parents for a month, leaving Cerro Gordo in the hands of a few friends. Brent Underwood's "Ghost Town Living" is published by Harmony.

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☆ I was starved for adult connection while raising my daughter as a single mom. Moving back to the family farm was exactly what I needed.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-24 | by ( Cat Jones | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +6 min

Cat Jones eagerly left the family home at 17 and later bought a house 230 miles away with her husband. After having a baby and leaving her husband, she was determined to make things work living on her own. Fiercely independent and proud, I was determined to make things work on my own. Farm life is notoriously stressful and persistent. I have become closer with everyone in my family, and we're showing my daughter how to cohabit peacefully.

Persons: Cat Jones, —, Cassie, Cassie didn't, Jones, it's, hadn't, grandma Cat Jones, It's, I'm Organizations: Service, Pew Research Center, Survey Locations: Tauranga —, New Zealand

☆ 'Quiet luxury' was once all about fashion — but now it describes how the top 1% travel too
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-22 | by ( Helen Iatrou | Rob Goss | ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +4 min

Big-ticket travel experiences like those are indicative of the "quiet luxury" trend which began in the world of fashion, with timeless lines trumping brand-blaring outfits. Less limelight, more connectionJaclyn Sienna India, the founder of the ultra-luxury travel company Sienna Charles, said she considers herself a longtime quiet luxury disciple. Monaco has long been a playground for the elite, but wealthy travelers are increasingly opting for more remote locations, say luxury travel advisors. But another important aspect of the quiet luxury movement concerns security. For them, quiet luxury travel is about exclusivity and privacy, she said.

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☆ I haven't used a clock in years. I can focus better and use calendar notifications to tell me where to be.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-22 | by ( Megan B. Wells | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +4 min

I'd watch the clock and count the minutes until I got to do things such as eat lunch. It wasn't healthy, so I removed all the clocks around me and could focus more. download the app Email address Sign up By clicking “Sign Up”, you accept our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy . I checked how long I'd been working on a particular task and whether I could justify switching focus or stopping. The author taped over appliances that didn't allow her to remove the clock, such as her oven.

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☆ A Filmmaker Needed a Quiet Place to Write. Where Better Than a Tuscan Villa?
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-18 | by ( Kurt Soller | Ricardo Labougle | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

Moya initially planned to find a more permanent home in Paris after his working holiday. Instead, after visiting the 2,475-square-foot apartment, he decided to stay in Florence so he could write in solitude. The astronomer Galileo Galilei stayed here several times in the 17th century, until the family of artistic patrons eventually sold it off. “I like empty spaces and complete austerity because I travel for work. “But here, the question was, ‘How do we respect the woodwork?’”

Persons: Moya, ”, “, Galileo Galilei, I’m, ” Moya Organizations: ”, Villa, Medicis Locations: Paris, Florence, Italian

☆ Putin seen winning an expected landslide 88% of Russian election vote
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-17 | by ( ) www.cnbc.com time to read: +6 min

President Vladimir Putin won a record post-Soviet landslide in Russia's election on Sunday, cementing his grip on power. The election comes just over two years since Putin triggered the deadliest European conflict since World War Two by ordering the invasion of Ukraine. War has hung over the three-day election: Ukraine has repeatedly attacked oil refineries in Russia, shelled Russian regions, and sought to pierce Russian borders with proxy forces - a move Putin said would not be left unpunished. As noon arrived across Asia and Europe, hundreds of people gathered at polling stations at Russian diplomatic missions. Putin says the West is engaged in a hybrid war against Russia and that Western intelligence and Ukraine are trying to disrupt the elections.

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☆ I grew up trying to win my parents' approval. I ended up getting a Ph.D., but it was solo travel that changed my life.
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-15 | by ( Marielle Descalsota | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

I traveled solo after breaking off my engagementApart from visiting family in China — my last trip to Beijing was in 2018 — I hadn't traveled solo until last year. Last year, I decided to try something I'd never done before, which was to travel solo internationally. I began documenting my solo travel on TikTok and Instagram. I found it easy to connect with people abroadI started my journey with a solo trip to Denmark and Sweden in November. A month later, I embarked on a monthlong solo trip traveling to eight cities in Italy, France, Germany, Switzerland, and Vatican City.

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☆ Opinion | Gabriel García Márquez Did Not Want His Final Book Published. But Should That Really Be the End of the Story?
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-13 | by ( Álvaro Santana-Acuña | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

Before his death, García Márquez asked his sons, Rodrigo García and Gonzalo García Barcha, to destroy the novel. The life of a work of art does not end when its creator dies. Artists too rarely leave clear instructions on what to do with their works, especially unfinished ones, which can lead to messy legal battles. The heirs inherit the responsibility to preserve and promote the artist’s legacy so that it can be appreciated for generations to come. The truth is that if García Márquez’s sons had done as their father asked, they would most likely have been met with criticism, too.

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☆ Gabriel García Márquez’s Last Book Is an Unsatisfying Goodbye
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-10 | by ( Michael Greenberg | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +2 min

UNTIL AUGUST, by Gabriel García Márquez. Billed as a “rediscovered” novel, “Until August” is likely to be the last published book of fiction by the Colombian master and Nobel laureate Gabriel García Márquez. Reading it may provoke unhealthy levels of frustration in those familiar with García Márquez’s most indelible creations. Readers’ inevitable disappointment with “Until August” may be directed partly at García Márquez’s two sons and literary executors, who permitted its publication even though their father had made his wishes clear. And to his sons he said: “Memory is at once my source material and my tool.

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☆ Gabriel García Márquez’s Hometown Awaits His Last Book and More Visitors
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-10 | by ( Genevieve Glatsky | Nathalia Angarita | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: 1 min

Hotels, barbershops, nightclubs and bike repair stores carry references to his work. In the sweltering Colombian mountain town of Aracataca, it is impossible to walk down a single street without seeing allusions to its most renowned former resident: the winner of the 1982 Nobel Prize in Literature, Gabriel García Márquez. Yellow butterflies are seen all over town, a nod to one of his famous literary images. The house where he lived as a child has been turned into a museum filled with its original furniture, including the crib where he slept. The library, named Biblioteca Pública Municipal Remedios La Bella, after the character Remedios the Beauty from his novel “One Hundred Years of Solitude,” features a glass case of his books translated into various languages.

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☆ A French Star Brings Her Career-Saving Play to New York
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-08 | by ( Laura Cappelle | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

In 2003, three decades into her career, Dominique Blanc experienced every actor’s worst nightmare: The phone stopped ringing. Blanc’s character, lifted from a book by the French author Marguerite Duras, awaits her husband’s return from a Nazi concentration camp in 1945, uncertain whether he is even alive. The show grew out of a series of readings she did from the book with the director Patrice Chéreau, a longtime collaborator. In 2008, Blanc pitched him a light stage version, requiring only a table, chairs and old costumes from Blanc’s closet. While Duras’s book was translated into English as “The War: A Memoir,” its original title simply means “Pain,” and in her show, Blanc starkly recreates women’s anguish as their partners return from untold horrors.

Persons: Dominique Blanc, Jean Racine’s “, ” Blanc, “, ”, Florence, Marguerite Duras, Patrice Chéreau, Blanc Organizations: Florence Gould Hall Locations: New York, French

☆ At City Ballet, 2 Sparkling Premieres and Many Moments to Remember
▼ + stars: | 2024-03-08 | by ( Gia Kourlas | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +2 min

For a company to unveil a decent new ballet is a strange and marvelous occurrence. To unveil two in one season? Quality choreography that celebrates classicism, that highlights musicality — that even pushes the form into new realms — isn’t the norm. But at New York City Ballet this season, two premieres were worthy of many more viewings — and in the case of Alexei Ratmansky’s harrowing “Solitude,” set to Mahler, endless ones. Inspired by a 2022 photo of a Ukrainian father kneeling before the body of his dead son, the ballet filled the stage with bodies expressing the tangible ache of grief and love.

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☆ Kate DiCamillo Says ‘Paying Attention Is a Way to Love the World’
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-29 | by ( ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +2 min

I’m happy to report that the books are now organized alphabetically by author, and the extra copies have been put into other people’s hands. What’s the last great book you read? For me a great book is a book that I want to make someone else read immediately. And, too, a great book is one that makes me want to tell a story back. The last story that made me feel that way was in the 2023 “Best American Short Stories.” It’s by Da-Lin.

Persons: Alice McDermott’s “, McDermott, Niall Williams’s “, Nehisi Coates, Gene Luen Yang, Carlo Rovelli, ”, Lin Locations: Gilead

☆ The Night Owl’s Special: Midnight Spaghetti
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-21 | by ( Eric Kim | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

Until now, for the last decade, I lived alone in a shoe-box studio apartment on the north end of Manhattan with my dog, Quentin Compson. Now the man, the dog and I live in a shoe-box one-bedroom in Brooklyn. It took awhile to get used to having another occupy my space, when all I ever had to account for was myself and my wire-haired familiar. I didn’t know how much I would rely on midnight for both my cravings and my work. And if there’s one dish that encompasses these precious hours of recuperative solitude, it has to be midnight spaghetti.

Persons: Quentin Compson Locations: Manhattan, Brooklyn

☆ My name is so common my husband even dated someone with the same name before meeting me
▼ + stars: | 2024-02-18 | by ( Emily Grosvenor | ) www.businessinsider.com time to read: +5 min

download the app Email address Sign up By clicking “Sign Up”, you accept our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy . Call it the John Smithification of naming: What was once a distinctive, literary-leaning name with nuanced shades of meaning has started to feel common and empty. AdvertisementEmily may mean “industrious, eager, ” but what I took from her is that to be an Emily (Emily Ratjakowski excluded) is to be a rule follower — at least publicly. AdvertisementMy husband dated an Emily before meBut once I joined the media world, they were everywhere — on all the magazine mastheads, in my ear as NPR reporters, sitting behind news desks, getting nominated for Oscars (Emma Stone is actually Emily, by the way). So, I’ve tasked myself with identifying a plural form for that moment when I discover several Emilys in one room.

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