Employers, not surprisingly, hate that people are using job offers as bargaining chips.
That strategy may work for employers in a normal job market, when it's hard to find another job, let alone a better-paying one.
"Employees are finding that there's a big gap between where they are and what they can get."
"The job market is still performing very well," says Jay Denton, the chief analytics officer at LaborIQ, a compensation-data provider.
Independence, it turns out, pays way, way better than loyalty.