My boss simply never, ever, ever gives positive feedback.
This seems to be fine for most of my colleagues, but I really thrive on positive feedback and always have.
Most people benefit from positive feedback and other forms of affirmation, so you aren’t a drip for seeking that.
If you need to frame it as positive feedback, you can certainly do so, but there’s no reason you cannot ask your boss for positive feedback in addition to the constructive feedback she provides.
The reality is that you do not owe your employer anything but doing good work in exchange for fair compensation.
Persons:
I’ve, I’d, don’t, acquit, Roxane Gay
Organizations:
NASA
Locations:
New York, workfriend@nytimes.com