It isn’t really a gift if it makes you grit your teeth.” (Reread the full question and answer here.)
Women have been subtly (and overtly) coerced into doing this type of supportive, unpaid work for far too long.
Should a spouse do unpaid work to support the partner whom they claim to love above all others?
If the letter writer needs another reason to stop performing this unpaid work, consider the message that it sends to her husband’s trainees.
What the letter writer is doing is very much necessary, yet under appreciated, much like background support has been over the years.
Persons:
“, you’ll, you’ve, ”, — Anne ⬥, — James ⬥ Academia, — Beth ⬥, — Maureen ⬥, I’ve, — Greta