If someone says any of these nine toxic phrases to you, be careful — they may be gaslighting you:1.
"I don't feel comfortable doing this.
How to respond: "I appreciate that you love me, but I'm not okay with the way you're talking to me."
A gaslighter may try to accuse you of harmful actions even if there's clear evidence that they're engaging in similar behaviors.
How to respond: "I'm sure that I contribute to our relationship struggles in some ways, but so do you.
Persons:
I've, you'd, I'm, gaslighters
Organizations:
Harvard