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☆ Opinion | We Can Do Better Than ‘Positive Masculinity’
▼ + stars: | 2024-10-08 | by ( Ruth Whippman | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +3 min

After the cartoon supervillainy of Donald Trump and the smarmy misogyny of JD Vance, the “positive masculinity” of Walz and his ilk is a joyful relief, and these programs are often doing good work. Because rather than challenging the old stereotypes and patterns, the whole positive masculinity framework actually seems to be reinforcing them. “Healthy or positive masculinity is the idea that men can be emotionally expressive, have female friends or mentors, and express their emotions without feeling emasculated,” the website of one such program in North Carolina says. There is a lurking sexism in the whole positive masculinity conceit. “Positive masculinity” is not about de-gendering universal human qualities, and certainly not about encouraging boys to believe that they could have something to learn from women or female cultural norms.

Persons: Donald Trump, JD Vance, Walz, Don McPherson, Masculinities, ” Organizations: Psychological Association’s Society Locations: North Carolina, United States

☆ Desperately Seeking Answers on How to Raise Boys
▼ + stars: | 2024-06-06 | by ( Casey Schwartz | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +1 min

When the British American writer Ruth Whippman decided to thaw one final embryo, she was 42 years old. She and her husband had two sons, Solly, then 6, and Zephy, 3. As her pregnancy became visible, most people assumed she was trying for a girl. When she told them she was having a boy, people treated her “as this object of pity,” Ms. Whippman said in a recent interview from her home in Berkeley, Calif. “There was this real sense that boys were somehow disappointing.”Even her mail carrier expressed her sympathy. Ms. Whippman, a self-described liberal feminist, was watching the #MeToo movement explode all around her.

Persons: Ruth Whippman, Solly, ” Ms, Whippman, ”, ‘, “ Locations: British American, Berkeley, Calif

☆ Opinion | I Spent Three Years Talking to Boys. Here’s What I Found.
▼ + stars: | 2024-06-05 | by ( Ruth Whippman | ) www.nytimes.com time to read: +2 min

During the pandemic, he was a moderator for a Discord community, at first mainly sorting out technical problems and weeding out trolls. But one night, an adolescent boy called him over voice chat, and started sharing how lonely and depressed he was. But it was the boys who seemed the most desperately lonely and isolated. On the site, he said, he found “a lot more unhealthy men than unhealthy women.” He added: “With men, there is a huge thing about mental health and shame because you’re not supposed to be weak. You’re not supposed to be broken.” A male mental-health crisis was flying under the radar.

Persons: he’d, you’re, You’re Locations: Cedar City , Utah, America

☆ Boys on the fringe of society aren’t so different from yours, this boy mom says
▼ + stars: | 2024-06-04 | by ( Shannon Carpenter | ) edition.cnn.com time to read: +11 min

CNN: You start “BoyMom” with an interesting fact that baby boys are not nurtured as much as girls. Ruth Whippman: They’re about six weeks behind baby girls (in development), so a baby boy needs more help with self-regulating with emotions. So, boys need more, and they get less. The story is that boys get girls, and women generally tend to be these kinds of side characters that boys get as prizes for being heroes. CNN: How do we as individual men support the boys and men in our lives?

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