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In its infancy, the United States was an act of political imagination — the idea that people could live free from tyranny, according to a set of clearly defined principles. Given what limited political imagination made possible, we must consider the bounty that could rise out of boundless vision. To imagine extravagant things is to want extravagant things. We have become so accustomed to mediocre political choices that we have forsaken the idea of sweeping change. We often forestall hope by detailing, at length, why the change we most want to see will never happen.
Persons: Kamala Harris, Donald Trump’s, Joe Biden’s Locations: America, United States
Vote for Your 10 Best Booksof the 21st CenturyMore than 500 writers and notable book lovers — including James Patterson and Junot Díaz, Rebecca Roanhorse and Roxane Gay — have shared their picks for the best books of the 21st century, and now it’s your turn. In the space below, please name up to 10 titles that you consider to be the best of this century. Each book must have been published in the United States, in English, after Jan. 1, 2000. We have compiled all 3,228 of our best and notable books since 2000 on one handy page, but you aren’t limited to those books. Translations, children’s books, poetry — they are all OK.We’ll tabulate the votes and offer our readers’ list of favorites later on.
Persons: , James Patterson, Junot Díaz, Rebecca Roanhorse, Roxane Gay —, Jan Locations: United States
To determine the best books of the 21st century , The New York Times Book Review and The Upshot polled hundreds of literary luminaries. Stephen King Stephen King has written more than 60 books, many of which have been adapted for film and television. Min Jin Lee Min Jin Lee has written two novels: FREE FOOD FOR MILLIONAIRES and PACHINKO, which was one of The Times’s 10 Best Books of 2017. Scott Turow Scott Turow is an attorney and writer best known for legal thrillers like PRESUMED INNOCENT and THE BURDEN OF PROOF. DU BOIS, was one of The Times’s 10 Best Books of 2021.
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Whitehead’s CROOK, Omar El Akkad, Wolf, Marlon James ● “, Winfred Rembert, Cixin Liu ● “, Dave Eggers ● “, George Floyd, Robert Samuels, Toluse, Jonathan Eig ●, Jonathan Eig ● “ Washington, Jeremy Denk Jeremy Denk, David Foster Wallace ●, Jeff, Geoff Dyer ●, Hanif Abdurraqib, Elif Batuman, Alex Ross ●, Kate Molleson Morgan Jerkins Morgan Jerkins, Zora Neale Hurston, Haruki Murakami ●, Masha Gessen ●, Safiya Sinclair ● “, Carmen Maria Machado ● “, Imani Perry, Jesmyn Ward Michael Roth Michael Roth, Amy Bloom, Saidiya Hartman, Valeria Luiselli ●, Jon Fosse, Daniel Kahneman ●, Ben Lerner ●, Jennifer Egan Organizations: New York, Argonauts, J.K, Railroad, Corrections, , A.M, Harvard University, OF, Metaphysical, Suns, Ministry, Indians, The New York Times, Hawthorn, Child, Roberto Bolaño ● “, New Yorker, NPR, University of Oklahoma, DU BOIS, PEN, , Yale Law School, THE, Umberto Eco, Beginners, MacArthur Foundation, Wesleyan University, Topeka School Locations: , Brooklyn, Norwegian, Ben 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The 1 00 Best Books of the 21st Century Today! In collaboration with the Upshot, we sent a survey to hundreds of literary luminaries, asking them to name the 10 best books published since Jan. 1, 2000. Every day this week, the Book Review will unveil 20 more books on our Best Books of the 21st Century list. You can get notified when they’re up — and hear about book reviews, news and features each week — when you receive the Book Review’s newsletter. Every day this week, the Book Review will unveil 20 more books on our Best Books of the 21st Century list.
Persons: Stephen King, Bonnie Garmus, Claudia Rankine, James Patterson, Sarah Jessica Parker, Karl Ove Knausgaard, Elin Hilderbrand, Thomas Chatterton Williams, Roxane Gay, Marlon James, Sarah MacLean, Min Jin Lee, Jonathan Lethem, Jenna Bush Hager, you’ve Organizations: The New York
And they were everywhere, although, naturally, New York City was a magnet, as it has always been for L.G.B.T.Q.+ people looking for a place in which they can be themselves. New York City was where you lost your soul, and we wanted to be closer to the earth. I wore an eight-and-a-half-foot-tall Statue of Liberty costume to the Easter Parade in New York City, and Kirsten came along with me. By the time I turned 30, I’d been telling people I was older for years, because I’m not the type to bemoan the loss of my youth. Going to New York felt like this moment of emerging to a wider audience, and then I started to travel a lot.
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Getting Acquainted With Our New Workplace Columnist
  + stars: | 2024-06-22 | by ( Stefano Montali | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +1 min
Times Insider explains who we are and what we do and delivers behind-the-scenes insights into how our journalism comes together. Some writers aim to develop one area of expertise over the course of their careers. “Let’s put it this way: I don’t have a beat,” Ms. Holmes said. Ms. Holmes is the incoming writer of Work Friend, a column published by the Sunday Business section of The New York Times. It is a formula she’s used to, having explored workplace culture in Sad Desk Salad, a column for Bloomberg Businessweek.
Persons: Anna Holmes, “ Let’s, ” Ms, Holmes, Holmes’s, Roxane Gay Organizations: New York Times, Bloomberg Businessweek
How to Alienate a Colleague, One Coffee at a Time
  + stars: | 2024-06-22 | by ( Anna Holmes | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +1 min
I hope that I’m able to honor and expand upon the insights she provided over the years. A little bit about me: I’m a writer and an editor and sometimes both at the same time. I’ve been managed by bosses as well as managed employees myself. I understand the challenges and rewards of workplace collaboration and camaraderie and enjoy the solo nature of just sitting in a chair and writing and writing. Right now, in addition to this new gig, I’m working on a book for Crown Publishers about women, power and communication.
Persons: Anna, Roxane Gay, Roxane, I’ve Organizations: New York Times, Crown Publishers
Goodbye, Work Friends
  + stars: | 2024-06-15 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +2 min
We spend a lot of our lives working, especially in the United States — 40, 50, 60 or more hours a week. For those four years, across 95 installments, writing the Work Friend column has afforded me a unique opportunity to reflect on the professional life. I’ve had good jobs, great jobs and terrible jobs. I’ve worked with quirky people and talkative people and folks who were practically invisible, just quietly coming to work, doing their job and minding their own business. My dad suggested this so I could better understand the value of a dollar and the importance of hard work.
Persons: we’re, Friend, I’ve Locations: United States
Don’t Blame the Office Dog for the Human Problem
  + stars: | 2024-05-25 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +4 min
Make the Dog Days OverI share my office with another co-worker and her large, stinky dog. I’m 99 percent sure my co-worker is aware I hate her dog, as I don’t pet it or interact with it. It is a verbal tic, very distracting albeit harmless. To protect his anonymity, let’s say it’s “quite frankly.” Now imagine watching someone give a 30-minute presentation in which he says “quite frankly” dozens of times, including in incongruous ways like: “Quite frankly, the next steps in the study are to document our findings in a final report.” No one has ever brought it to his attention. That said, it’s also relatively harmless, and for some people a verbal tic may be a symptom of a medical condition.
Persons: Mutty, let’s, , I’ve, It’s, it’s
Manager 1 and I frequently host trainings, too, but we never thought to brand them and tell the entire organization. Though I am angry she is playing the game better than I am, I don’t want my job to be a game! I prefer to come in and do a good job at my actual job description! But, with all the visibility she earns, I am beginning to feel like the work of my actual job isn’t what matters. There are ways of “playing the game” that don’t feel like you’re playing the game.
Persons: , You’re,
This Ship Is Sinking. Can I Jump to a Client’s?
  + stars: | 2024-04-28 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +3 min
I’m looking for a new job, and I’ve seen some very appealing openings with current clients. I’d be a great candidate, because I know many of the players, and they know and like my work. We don’t have a noncompete, but I am worried I would further harm my employer if I applied for a job with its clients. Will I accelerate the demise of my current company if I jump ship to a client? — AnonymousYou will not harm your employer by taking a new job with one of its clients.
Persons: I’ve, I’d, noncompetes, I’m Organizations: Self, Federal Trade Commission
But I’m All Grown Up With a Job of My Own
  + stars: | 2024-04-13 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +3 min
You ProblemsI work in a wonderful environment where everyone cares about everyone … a little too much. Most colleagues are worried I’m going to burn out, which is fair, but I have the energy and capacity they don’t have anymore. You’re simply interested in developing a more robust skill set. This man is no longer your co-worker, so there is little downside to politely telling him you simply don’t have time to socialize when he comes in. Tell him you hope he is enjoying his retirement and wish him the very best in this new chapter of his life.
Persons: , You’re, it’s, Locations: eggshells
Roxane Gay on the Open Letter - The New York Times
  + stars: | 2024-04-13 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +1 min
Open letters are not new; they have served as rhetorical tools for at least two centuries, from Émile Zola’s “J’accuse” to the Rev. Open letters are persuasive arguments, but they are also entreaties. Please, hear me, the writers of open letters implore. I am not a fan of open letters, though I recognize their value. The open letter, as a genre is, in this way, far too limited.
Persons: , Martin Luther King Jr, I’ve Locations: Birmingham
Work Is (Mostly) Work, Not Your Soapbox
  + stars: | 2024-03-30 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +4 min
Generation ZealI work for a health care nonprofit, and there have been some clashes among the five generations in our work force. I had been working in a new role for about six months when my brother was diagnosed, but my company offered to let me work remotely. I return to California for work about four or five times a year. They are paying for your flight because you are going there for work. You certainly could be honest and say you don’t want to hang out, but that might create unnecessary tension.
Persons: you’ve, I’m, Tell Locations: California, Arizona
A Friendly Reminder: A.I. Work Isn’t Yours
  + stars: | 2024-03-16 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +4 min
After seeing a recent review with a suspected A.I.-generated set of bullet points, a team member was able to verify that the response had been generated by A.I. The next time someone turns in work generated by A.I. without an appropriate acknowledgment, simply tell them that moving forward, they need to identify all A.I.-generated work. How should they acknowledge and cite A.I.-generated work? How are you going to train managers to identify work that is generated by it?
Persons: it’s, I’m, isn’t, haven’t, Cathy Moore’s, I’d, Julie Dirksen
Feeling Trapped, Swimming in Circles?
  + stars: | 2024-03-02 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +3 min
I am repeatedly told “you’re essential” and “this place would fall apart without you.” But I also know two people used to do my job. — AnonymousYou’re in a frustrating professional situation where you’re told you are valuable, but you aren’t treated as such. Reach out to your personal and professional networks, as you can, and let them know you’re looking for new employment opportunities. Be specific about what you’re looking for. I don’t know that anyone ever feels empowered to quit, because doing so is precarious.
Persons: , I’m, you’re, you’ve, can’t,
The High Priestess of the Personal
  + stars: | 2024-02-20 | by ( Kate Dwyer | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +1 min
Ms. Jamison, wearing an ethereal blue maxi dress, stood before a projector screen showing 19th-century spirit photography. “Being haunted can be a state of abundance,” she said. “Living in the ghost hotel is a state of abundance. Memories are raw material.”One does not check into a ghost hotel without taking inventory of its specters: “Who are you haunted by?” Ms. Jamison told her students to ask themselves. Ms. Jamison said she became acquainted with each of these while writing her new memoir, “Splinters,” which recounts the birth of her child and the end of her marriage.
Persons: ” Leslie Jamison, Jamison, Ms, Jamison’s, , Maggie Nelson, Roxane Gay, Eula Organizations: Columbia University
It’s Lonely at the Top
  + stars: | 2024-02-17 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +3 min
In my time here, I have had to let two staff members go for behavior issues that were well documented. However, last week I had to lay off one of our full-time managers because of some unexpected shortfalls in revenue. I listened and acknowledged their feelings but was also surprised they didn’t understand that we had to preserve resources for everyone’s benefit. What can I do or not do to help build back trust in our team? — AnonymousYou are running an organization that is, mostly, doing well, but now you’re dealing with one of the many challenges of leadership.
Organizations: Staff
Rusty could barely bring himself to say the word “fat” when filming for the documentary first began six years earlier. Under the pseudonym “Your Fat Friend,” she began blogging anonymously, spotlighting these ways in which the world makes life harder for fat people. “Just say fat,” Gordon says in an accompanying voiceover, reading aloud one of her essays. “Just say fat,” Gordon says in a voiceover in the film. There’s space for my parents to grow and change, there’s space for the audience to grow and change,” Gordon says.
Persons: Aubrey Gordon, Rusty, , , ” Gordon, Jeanie Finlay, Gordon, Jeanie Finlay “ It’s, sidelong, , Phil Sharp, ” Finlay, “ It’s, Aubrey, — Pam, Rusty —, Pam grapples, ” Jeanie Finlay “, Gordon’s, Finlay, “ I’ve, Darren Aronofsky’s, Hal ” —, I’m, Roxane Gay, Aidy Bryant, Annie Easton, Fatphobia, Kate Manne, Desiree Burch, Julie Murphy, Jennifer Aniston Organizations: CNN, SNL, Cornell University, Netflix Locations: Europe, Canada, Oregon, proofread, London, Fatness
What’s My D.E.I. Training?My Own Life.
  + stars: | 2024-02-04 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +5 min
Would you tell us how you are prepared to work effectively with colleagues and external stakeholders from backgrounds that are different from your own, and to contribute to our commitment to D.E.I.? I am not comfortable disclosing personal information (such as a non-visible disability, background as an immigrant, queer identity, etc.). I commended their commitment to D.E.I., not least because of the range of expertise and complementary skills it brings together. Do some research about different ways to answer this question, and think through how you can answer them using your own voice and perspective. But if there is something worth preserving in this relationship, tell your friend how her comments make you feel.
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Crying at Work and Other Experiments in Emotion
  + stars: | 2024-01-20 | by ( Roxane Gay | ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +3 min
Recently, one of my younger lab members confronted me about how she feels she can’t be her full self at work, in part because she doesn’t feel comfortable crying publicly in our lab space. She also said she thinks we should talk about our feelings and share more about our personal lives. You can foster an emotionally open environment while making it clear that your lab is a professional workplace. Work has to get done and, ideally, that work should be done in a space where people feel safe, seen and respected, while also being held to a standard of excellence. Ask her why she thinks you should talk about your feelings and share more.
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CNN —After Japanese author Rie Kudan won one of the country’s most prestigious literary awards, she admitted she’d had help from an unusual source — ChatGPT. The author then confirmed at a press conference that around 5% of her book “The Tokyo Tower of Sympathy” — which was lauded by committee members as “practically flawless” — was word-for-word generated by AI. The novel centers around the dilemmas of an architect tasked with building a comfortable high-rise prison in Tokyo where law breakers are rehabilitated, and features AI as a theme. Kudan said that, in her own life, she would consult ChatGPT about problems she felt she couldn’t tell anyone. “It seems that the story that Rie Kudan’s award-winning work was written using generative AI is misunderstood… If you read it, you will see that the generative AI was mentioned in the work,” he wrote.
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Common Credits Ralph Ellison for Pointing Him Toward Music
  + stars: | 2024-01-11 | by ( ) www.nytimes.com   time to read: +1 min
The Bible, “The Selected Works of Audre Lorde,” edited and with an introduction by Roxane Gay, and “The Tongue — A Creative Force” by Charles Capps. I’m a believer in God’s word so learning how to apply that was really inspiring and impactful for me. I was really moved by “The Creative Act” because I think Rick Rubin has experienced so much in life. I learned from a musician friend of mine that so many things can contribute to your musical/creative vocabulary, even nature. And after that, “The Autobiography of Malcolm X” and “The Mastery of Love” by Don Miguel Ruiz and Janet Mills.
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My boss simply never, ever, ever gives positive feedback. This seems to be fine for most of my colleagues, but I really thrive on positive feedback and always have. Most people benefit from positive feedback and other forms of affirmation, so you aren’t a drip for seeking that. If you need to frame it as positive feedback, you can certainly do so, but there’s no reason you cannot ask your boss for positive feedback in addition to the constructive feedback she provides. The reality is that you do not owe your employer anything but doing good work in exchange for fair compensation.
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Just last week, he was giving “pointers” to some of our very seasoned directors, who in turn complained to me. So I have to ask, is there a professional way to tell someone they are too arrogant about their role within a company? I’m all for collaborative work environments, mentoring younger colleagues, and encouraging people to pursue their ambitions for advancement. This new policy feels like they don’t trust us, and it seems overkill to have to check in daily. Corporations often create busywork for one reason or another, and maybe they don’t trust you, but why do you care?
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