But content creator and author Eli Rallo, nicknamed Gen Z's "Carrie Bradshaw," has the rules to change that. AdvertisementWith Valentine's Day around the corner, Business Insider spoke with Rallo about her top rules older generations (and Gen Z) should follow for dating in the digital age. Take a note from Gen Z and advocate for yourself"Dating is not just about other people, it's also about you," Rallo told Business Insider. Unlike the Gen Xers and the millennials of the "Sex and the City" generation, Rallo appreciates that Gen Z approaches dating — and life — from an advocacy lens. "If you want a relationship, not using dating apps is going to make that more difficult for you," she told BI.

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