There is endless discussion among parents — and researchers — about which mix of empathy and structure kids need to grow into well-adjusted adults. Recently, experts have been praising a new approach that they say is the perfect equilibrium of freedom and rigidity: lighthouse parenting. This is an authoritative style of child-rearing that calls for both rules and warmth. "Lighthouse parenting balances protection but fosters a really healthy resilience and autonomy in kids," she says. Often called "helicopter parenting," this method can stunt growth.

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Persons: —, Mona Amin, Ken Ginsburg, Ginsburg Organizations: Children's Hospital of Philadelphia Locations: Fort Lauderdale , Florida