Luckily, with the right tools, you can decode what your jealousy is trying to tell you, and then turn your emotions into positive action. But benign envy motivates us to work harder, while malicious envy makes us miserable and nasty. Use these phrases to shift your thinking from malicious envy to benign envy: "I'm inspired by _____. Zoom In Icon Arrows pointing outwards Illustration: Liz FosslienYou may not always be exactly where you want to be, but chances are you're not where you used to be, either. Zoom In Icon Arrows pointing outwards Illustration: Liz Fosslien

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