Related stories"I think it's very understandable to feel grief while experiencing a friend's divorce," Hui told Business Insider. With divorce or separation, the members may have to renegotiate their relationship not only to the partner that is separating but to the partner's friends or family," Hui said. A friend's split can make us "think of our own relationship to divorce, changes, and endings in relationships" and bring up feelings of loss, sadness, anger, or betrayal. AdvertisementI was able to move forwardTaking Hui's advice, I ruminated on what exactly this divorce was bringing up for me. AdvertisementOur friend group has rallied around our friend and each other, creating a new chosen family built on honesty, empathy, and support.

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