When Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin named their separation a "conscious uncoupling" 10 years ago, I was in Costa Rica on a writing retreat. What the heck is a "conscious uncoupling"? Within one day, conscious uncoupling was listed in an online dictionary as "redefining divorce in the 21st century." Katherine Woodward Thomas, the founder of Conscious Uncoupling Laura ReochYet Mark and I were determined to protect our daughter and resolved to not put her in the middle. Katherine Woodward Thomas, a licensed marriage and family therapist, is the New York Times bestselling author of "Conscious Uncoupling: 5 Steps to Living Happily Even After."

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Persons: Gwyneth Paltrow, Chris Martin, she'd, Gwyneth, uncoupling, I'd, Mark, Katherine Woodward Thomas, Laura Reoch, That's Organizations: Hollywood, Disney, New York Times Locations: Costa Rica, goop, Star, Venice, Italy