She knew she wanted a divorce but was scared to make the leap because of her finances. Over 12 years of marriage, my ex and I grew apart until I knew we had reached the divorce cliché: irreconcilable differences. Doing something unconventional felt uncomfortable, but I realized I'd have to get uncomfortable to make my new life work. I did freelance writing and created a paid Substack newsletter about divorce that generated a few hundred dollars each month. I'm ending spousal support earlyReceiving spousal support has become contentious as my life moves forward after divorce.

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