The psychotherapist's 2020 book, "Polysecure," has become the poly bible for an increasingly queer and fluid generation.
As consensual nonmonogamy went mainstream, searches for Fern's "Polysecure" spiked.
"I've heard authors joke they get a cup of coffee from their book," Fern said.
When Jessica Fern and Dave Cooley opened up their relationship, Cooley was surprised at the "searing anguish" he felt about his wife seeing other men.
Fern, Cooley, and Fern's partner bought the property together and settled in, planning to live there long term.
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