Insider asked funeral directors to share their top etiquette rules and common pet peeves that they wish more people knew. Keep the family room private before the funeralOftentimes, the close family will wait in a private room together before the funeral. Casey said guests should assume it isn't appropriate to visit the private family room before the funeral unless the family has said otherwise. Respect the funeral and the funeral homeDino Cantelmi , the owner and director of Cantelmi Funeral Home in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, says there are a few rules to keep in mind if you've never been to a funeral. Leave your phone in the car or in your pocketBefore entering a funeral, Cantelmi said, one thing people can do is be aware of their cellphone.

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