When the British American writer Ruth Whippman decided to thaw one final embryo, she was 42 years old.
She and her husband had two sons, Solly, then 6, and Zephy, 3.
As her pregnancy became visible, most people assumed she was trying for a girl.
When she told them she was having a boy, people treated her “as this object of pity,” Ms. Whippman said in a recent interview from her home in Berkeley, Calif. “There was this real sense that boys were somehow disappointing.”Even her mail carrier expressed her sympathy.
Ms. Whippman, a self-described liberal feminist, was watching the #MeToo movement explode all around her.
Persons:
Ruth Whippman, Solly, ” Ms, Whippman, ”, ‘, “
Locations:
British American, Berkeley, Calif