My husband converted to Christianity two years before our wedding, so we had a Christian wedding ceremony. “If it is a larger wedding, you might only be able to tell the couple how beautiful the wedding is and move on,” she said. The couple are balancing difficult roles as both the guests of honor and hosts of their wedding, Kuehl said. “The most important thing parents need to do is … realize this wedding is in no way about them,” she said. “You are there to facilitate and help, so your children can get married and have a lovely wedding — most importantly, the wedding they wanted.”

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Persons: ”, Sherry Kuehl, “, Kuehl, Lizzie Post, Emily Post’s, ” Kuehl, Post, Jesus, doesn’t, Myka Meier, ” Meier, don’t, Meier, videographers, ‘, … Organizations: CNN, The Kansas City Star, Emily Post, Beaumont Locations: United States, New York City