In her three years as a dating coach Kelsey Wonderlin has learned that the majority of the 200 people she's counseled care about how much their potential mate earns.
Evaluating a person based on their salary might seem shallow, but how someone spends their money can be a bellwether of their priorities.
However, outright asking how much a person makes on a first date is not the right way, or the right time, to figure out if you two align on how you handle money.
"On a first date that would be a socially unacceptable question to ask," Wonderlin says.
"It's an unrealistic viewpoint that if someone makes this certain number everything will be great," Wonderlin says.
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