The fan communities that have formed around these pairs are forged through wondering and wishing, in-jokes and lingo and those in the know.
Our touchstone isn’t the friendship itself; it’s a feeling, an act of quiet yearning, a longing look and a passed note.
For many queer women, first love means falling for a friend, hiding your feelings and hoping they’ll pass, pretending to like boys — and underneath all that, praying she feels it, too.
Much has been written about the perverse parasociality of fandom, the blurring line between public displays of devotion and invasions of privacy.
Queer fandoms often foster an especially ardent passion, passed among people who’ve felt misunderstood and judged for whom they love, finally publicly expressing adoration.
Persons:
—, I’ve, I’m, they’ll, fandoms, who’ve, Emmeline Clein
Organizations:
Miss, Knopf
Locations:
Brooklyn
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