In response, the man asked Costanza if she could Venmo him back payment for her drinks. Like Constanza, some women say they've had a male date ask for his money back after they explained they didn't want to go out again. Dating coach Blaine Anderson said a money request after a date is among the biggest taboos. "Venmo-requesting a woman to split your first date if she doesn't agree to a second date is pathetic and unethical," Anderson said. Erin, a single 40-something in Pennsylvania who asked to use her first name only, felt unsettled when her date later asked for a refund.

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Persons: Samantha Costanza, she'd, Costanza didn't, Costanza, they've, Carli Blau, Jon Birger, Birger, Blaine Anderson, Anderson, Irina Manta, Erin, Blau, MoneyGeek, It's Organizations: Finance, Westend61 Locations: Brooklyn , New York, New York, Pennsylvania, U.S