When my kids are old enough, my wife and I plan to get them into judo gear. AdvertisementHaving kids in Japan, as a same-sex couple, has been hard. We started talking seriously about building a family early on, given that we were both already in our mid-30s and worried that waiting would diminish our chances of success. AdvertisementDespite the acceptance of our medical team, however, the Japanese birth certificates that we received list each of us as a single mom. For now, we're comfortably settledHer partner Ali and two kids playing in the fall leaves in Japan.

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Persons: —, Ali, Finn, Carey Finn, we're, we'll, we've Organizations: Service, Japan Exchange, Teaching, JET, boro Locations: Japan, Cape Town , South Africa, Canada, Tokyo, South Africa