You have to use the strategy in moderation, and earnestly, for it to be effective, says Abrahams: "People can smell humblebrags."
Think about your responsesThoughtfully responding to questions and compliments is an easy way to display humility, according to Abrahams.
"When I say, 'I'm still working on my communication skills,' I'm really trying to take pressure off the other person and show that we're in this together," says Abrahams.
Avoid being self-deprecating, or your colleagues will feel like you're fishing for compliments, he adds.
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