It's Annika, and you pronounce it by saying the name "Ann," followed by the name "Nick" and a moment of realization: "Ah."
Remembering any name is hard, and it's harder when they're uncommon like mine, so I don't always blame them.
My name is closely tied to my identity, and mispronunciations weigh more heavily on me than most people think.
Xuenan Lily Hu, a product manager in New York, says she often chooses to go by "Lily" instead of "Xuenan," but she doesn't always like it.
"When I choose to go by Lily instead, it makes me feel like I let go of that part of my identity to settle comfortably in conformity."