But when my partner transitioned into a woman, I struggled to see her as another mother to our kids. AdvertisementAfter my husband transitioned to female and became my wife, I was taken aback when a friend wished us both a Happy Mother's Day. Mother's Day promises a token gesture of pampering and the invitation of self-care, a thank you for all we do. Mother's Day became confusingOn our second Mother's Day after her transition, Stefanie gave me flowers, as always; I gave her nothing and felt terrible. Did it matter whether we called it Father's Day or a June Mother's Day?

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Persons: —, I'd, I'm, Stefanie, Didn't, peonies, There's, Maddie, I'm Mama Organizations: Service, Mother's, Museum of Modern Art Locations: New York