It was spring, and I wanted to do something spontaneous, so I asked her to cut my long hair. I had moved to Kosovo, where every decision had to be approved by my husband. My husband doesn't care what I do with my hair as long as I keep it out of his food. To this day, I regret not going, but I trust that my husband understands his culture better than I do. Adjusting hasn't always been easy, but after three years, I have grown to accept and feel comfortable in this culture.

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Persons: me, —, wouldn't Organizations: Service, Hollywood Locations: America, Kosovo, Europe