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☆ 4 key pieces of relationship advice from married psychologists who have worked with 40,000 couples
  + stars: | 2024-06-28 | by ( Aditi Shrikant | ) www.cnbc.com   time to read: +3 min
Renowned psychologists John and Julie Gottman have interviewed 40,000 couples in quest to find out what makes love last. Through their research at The Gottman Institute, they've learned how successful relationships survive conflict and express affection. In an interview with psychotherapist and bestselling author Esther Perel, The Gottmans said one commonality most successful couples had was their ability to do "repairs." One of the Gottman's most concrete finding is that in successful couples, the ratio of positive to negative interactions during a conflict is five to one. And lo and behold: it was the couples who had maintained at least a five-to-one ratio (or more!)
Persons: John, Julie Gottman, they've, John Gottman, you'll, Esther Perel, didn't, Perel, Joy Organizations: Gottman Institute, TED
☆ How ‘bids for connection’ can make or break a relationship
  + stars: | 2024-06-24 | by ( Taylor Nicioli | ) edition.cnn.com   time to read: +6 min
In what may seem like a small, everyday exchange, her friend’s reaction was an important indicator for their relationship: She had responded to Caribardi’s “bid for connection,” a term coined by relationship experts at the Gottman Institute in Seattle. Whether the bid is big or small doesn’t matter — what is important is the other person’s response, Schwartz Gottman said. How to recognize a ‘bid for connection’The basis of “bids for connection” stems from the Gottmans’ “Love Lab” research, which started in 1986 and tracked couples for six years. Schwartz Gottman said this test is a good example of the importance of “turning toward” a partner, one of the three responses someone can have to a bid. Schwartz Gottman recommends communicating those feelings directly and honestly to the partner, instead of lashing out with a “turning against” response.
Persons: CNN —, Alyssa Caribardi, Caribardi, Caribardi’s, ”, Julie Schwartz Gottman, John Gottman, Schwartz Gottman, Leander, ” Caribardi, that’s, “, Schwartz, Lauren Fogel Mersy, Fogel Mersy, ” Fogel Mersy, it’s, ” Schwartz Gottman Organizations: CNN, Gottman Institute, Partners Locations: Seattle, Texas, ”, Minnesota
☆ 2 crucial questions people in successful relationships ask, say psychologists who’ve studied 40,000 couples
  + stars: | 2024-06-18 | by ( Aditi Shrikant | ) www.cnbc.com   time to read: +1 min
They have also studied more than 40,000 couples who are about to begin couples therapy. Through their research they learned that just because a fight is reoccurring doesn't mean it has to be detrimental. "So when we think about fighting right, whether talking about a perpetual problem or a solvable problem, what is the biggest mistake that the disasters of relationships make?" John Gottman said at a TED Talk in April. Some problems are more situational while others seem to linger, but the healthy way to handle them is the same.
Persons: John, Julie Gottman, John Gottman Organizations: Gottman Institute, TED
☆ This is the No. 1 thing all successful couples do, love researchers John and Julie Gottman tell therapist Esther Perel
  + stars: | 2023-04-15 | by ( Aditi Shrikant | ) www.cnbc.com   time to read: +1 min
In a recent interview on her online class platform "Sessions", psychotherapist and bestselling author Ester Perel interviewed renowned clinical psychologists John and Julie Gottman. Much of their research is through the The Gottman Institute, formerly the Gottman Love Lab, a center at the University of Washington which has been conducting research since the 1980s. One commonality most successful couples had, the Gottmans found, was their ability to do "repairs." "The couples who really were successful a few years down the road were the ones who made repairs," Julie Gottman told Perel. This lesson was a "paradigm shift," Perel told them.
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