As psychologists, we've studied more than 40,000 couples about to begin couples therapy. We've also been married to each other for 35 years, so we know a thing or two about successful relationships. One of the biggest determining factors was how often a couple "turned toward" their partner instead of "turning away." 1 relationship hack: 'Turning toward'When a couple turns toward each other, they make and respond to what we call "bids for connection." How to practice turning toward in your relationshipIf you feel like turning toward has faded from your relationship — don't worry.

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