Hogging a conversation could reflect inflated self-esteem or even deep-rooted insecurities, and it can be draining to be on the other end. Don't miss: If you answer these 10 questions correctly, you have higher emotional intelligence than most people As a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist, here's exactly how I spot — and respond to — a highly narcissistic person:1. How to respond: Gently steer the conversation back to a more balanced dialogue. You're talking to someone who is so passionate about what they're speaking about that they seldom pause to gauge your reactions. How to respond: Set clear boundaries and resist the urge to respond defensively.

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Persons: Charles Derber, they're, Jess Organizations: Harvard Locations: Spain, Italy